Some men (especially young men) I have dated more or less casually to have a good while, or a good night, or a whole week-end, build up too quickly some idea of me that does not correspond with reality. Once they know and rightly assume I am a trans-chick, and have listened to my occasional comments about BDSM and I being somewhat into it, or interested in it, they figure out I want to suffer and be mistreated… NO!! – I do want to have a nice time, enjoy sex and be treated sweetly (or at least kindly and fairly, as I treat everybody, including my sex-partners, even when I do not love them).
There is a current idea spread on social networks about “sissies” wanting to get pain, to be not just dominated, but humiliated, to have their orgasms ruined… I can’t stand this last two things. My orgasms and the endorphins got from them are the ultimate reason to date anyone in this world for whom I do not feel love.
Occasionally, I may ask for some spanking or rough fucking (deep, vigorous, fast piston-fucking, if they are able to provide it), some painful pulling and twisting on my nipples; I may even accept an expeditious preliminary milking if they prefer to have a limp, more lax girl and I feel in the mood for it… Many things. But do not they dare to ruin any of my anal orgasms!
If they get out of me to “honour” my back or belly –or anything– while I’m slowly coming off; or worse: if they do not follow my way toward bigger pleasure after a first orgasm of them (and maybe mine too) and some cumshots (maybe mine too), I feel used. And frustrated.
I need men who stay in me after cumming (even if we do it together) and are willing to bring me to my quickly following orgasms, each one better than the precedent… If they do not do this, or are incapable of doing this, they won’t have me anymore. If some of them, conditioned by the “sissy humiliation” concept there is everywhere on porn-sites and open social networks, deliberately interrupts my pleasure and ruins it, he may be sure he won’t see me or talk to me evermore in his life.
In truth, I respect “sissy traps” that enjoy frustration and punishment, and also all kind of masochistic bottomers, be them masculine or feminine or in between, but… I’ve never found one in real life who likes spoiled orgasms. I’m serious! – Some peers enjoy “chastity” (meaning a strict lack of orgasms for a time), a few others like to feel as mere cock-suckers and cum-recipients, overlooking their own physical pleasure, but they are never pleased with a orgasm being ruined if a mate ever brings them to one. This must be an oddity of a few, or, more probably, some Internet legend to fulfil, even more, the macho’s interests.
(Of course, sex-work is another, very different matter. If you are into it, you may probably try to entirely avoid orgasms, and even some occasional squirting; but you are not looking for pleasure right then.)
[Speaking above about expeditious –speedy and efficient– milking of chicks-with-dicks, I meant something like this (often times an enema will follow; a hard spanking too, possibly). Are they going to ruin all her orgasms during and after all this fuss ?? ] :